Few Thoughts

To a very good (and brave) friend of mine,

Past week has been a very tough week for you and your family.  This note is not to remind of that.   Instead it is an attempt to remind you that how fortunate you are.   Life has blessed you with a lot (even if it has taken away a lot from you).  You have smart and intelligent kids.  And that you are surrounded by good and true friends. 

In tough time like this it is very easy to lose hope and focus.   I am very happy to see you are not letting it take you over completely and astonished to see how well you are handling this.  You are doing pretty good job of hiding your sorrow and keeping it under control.  Because you know that you must do this for your kids.  Your kids need you to be stronger today to feel secure and hopeful for tomorrow. 

No one can ever be well prepared for something like this.  The only thing we can ever do is to show our love and appreciation to our loved once every day. 

I am not a very good writer (as you are) but still wanted to try this any way.  The reason for choosing this venue to express my thoughts is that two years ago when I was going through some difficult time of my own, you chose the same venue to console and comfort me during that time.  You were there for me then and I want you to know that I am here for you today and always.     

Take care!