Are we on the Verge of the Extinction of Romance and Love???

What of these traits...

from JoeUser Forums
I realize that there is still love and some romance...but what will happen in the years to come....

You know you've all seen the MTV "music" videos and some bullcrap movies and thought romance and true love (between 2 nonrelated people) is prevalent. But if you're in public for hours and observe the relationships of others, especially in school or the workplace, you've seen that some people are lovestruck for a few weeks and then quickly tire of their partner...think for a while and you'll find someone you know that does this. I have some friends (Not Cornbread,carebear,beebles,delong...at least I don't think so) that truly believe they are in love but break up in a heartbeat without warning...The thing is, I believe, that their judgement and expectations are being clouded and warped. Also, most of them are not romantic, at all....not the fancy restaurant, hotel, crap...but just flowers, candy, a card, or a special place to go...not expensive but meaningful nonetheless. It seems as though people "go out" just for the heck of it...Not all mind you but a lot. Its sad to see some couples together that don't develop over time and most of all...no love...not real love...just fabricated bits of lust. If only people wouldn't be victimized by the falsehoods in the media and follow their heart...not their thoughts. There may be a good bit of Old School love out there and some romance but not like in the older times...

If you pay attention in History class you would know that the soldiers in the Civil War...some still teens would write wonderful love letters back to their girlfriends and spouses...but now if you were to read the letters, what would they consist of? Probably lust...not very poetic just a little description of what has happened and to tell them not to f*&% anyone while they're gone...

You may not agree with this...but I'm sure you'll find some truth in what I say...too much thinking on looks and appearance and not loving...because most people are afraid that they will be rejected and do not want that kind of pain...so they don't open up...
As for romance...people, men, just get your ladies something nice or take them somewhere special...on a whim...trust me, this may just increase the bond you already share.If you don't get along or feel controlled or cold towards on another...just bail out...its not worth it to waste both of your lives in an awkward situation....

I hope these words will inspire and ignite the flames of Love and Romance at least in a few, until next time...
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top
It's sadly true that romance seems to be dead in the modern world. The days of chivalry and lasy-like behavior seem to have gone the way of the sword and the pettycoat.

When romancing my Lady, I often brought her a single red rose or left one on her windshield in the parking lot where whe worked. I still bring her a flower now and then, or a crad and small gift. Just little things to let her know how I feel. We've been together since 1996 and have never had a single fight. (not bragging, just relating how our relationship exists)

People these days are more interested in instant gratification than long term relationships. Sex has replaced romance. Could have something to do with why the divorce rate is so high.
Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
It's sadly true that romance seems to be dead in the modern world. The days of chivalry and lasy-like behavior seem to have gone the way of the sword and the pettycoat.

When romancing my Lady, I often brought her a single red rose or left one on her windshield in the parking lot where whe worked. I still bring her a flower now and then, or a card and small gift. Just little things to let her know how I feel. We've been together since 1996 and have never had a single fight. (not bragging, just relating how our relationship exists)

People these days are more interested in instant gratification than long term relationships. Sex has replaced romance. Could have something to do with why the divorce rate is so high.
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Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
that was supposed to say "lady-like behavior"
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
It seems as though people "go out" just for the heck of it


Some people have a theory that it's better to be with anyone than to be alone.

I'm still in love with my other half....10 years later.
Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top
I GOT FACE TIME ON SHAUN'S ARTICLE!!!

I definitely try to be romantic, but I my low self-esteem is telling me that I fail miserably. I'm definitely not all about lust, I think I really love her, and I'm pretty sure I do. Sometimes I have trouble showing it, but I think she understands. Not to mention, it'll be a lot easier to take her places on a whim when I get my license. I agree about the lustful relationships though, they happen way too often. Perhaps it's just where I'm at everyday, but finding a new toy every couple weeks isn't my idea of a good time.