i am completely cursed in ranked. I get to play mid. The guy I'm playing against at mid dc's at the start of the game and is gone for like 15 min of the game. I force their jungle to cover mid for like 10 minutes. I gank for my non warding bot over and over. They manage to feed over and over. Our jungle doesn't ever take adv of me keeping their jungle at mid... no fucking idea what he's doing. So, no ward feed bot, dumb jungler, and a missing player on the enemy team... we lose. amazing.
i watched that game - though i do think your bot lane was the biggest problem, there were other issues.
Beginning of the game:
1- the invasion call was a good one, so it was good that you called that out
2- obviously you were fine the first few minutes, got plenty of CS, etc
3- your bot lane decided to help Udyr at blue, which put them way behind in lane because they were 30-45 seconds late or so. Bad, but not an insurmountable thing (esp compared to a mid who DC's level 2).
4- Udyr wasn't really very comfortable with the invade - he wasn't sure when to smite/etc and i know Udyr is pretty blue-reliant for his very first clear, it may have thrown him off of his pace to start red, which is why he didn't have a significant advantage over Hec not being a jungler.
After this is where things started to go wrong.
Generally, the jungler isn't that strong... but since he leached a lot of gold + EXP, he was really more of like a "super" mid, because he got mid CS + EXP, in addition to starting blue buff. He also caught you around his red buff at the 6 minute mark or so? So he did have that early kill.
Your bot lane, Soraka in particular, cannot do anything to prevent Hec from slaughtering them under tower, esp when Hec was mid-Hec. She did buy/use wards: 7 green, 1 pink, and she did have a sightstone (which doesn't count to that 7). Just she couldn't do anything to stop Hec. Stuff like not warding your blue towards the end of the game really didn't "lose" the game for your team, even though that is probably what she should have done.
Hec's first gank is def when things started to go awry, when you + Udyr (who was also having lag issues), went down to 4v3 bot lane that first time. Hec was basically unkillable, Soraka couldn't do anything, and Sona's ult hit both you and Udyr when you guys went in.
Their bot lane was warded (since you were counter-ganking their gank, which was the right thing to do).
i couldn't say exactly 100% what went wrong there - other than the fact that Soraka can't do anything. Udyr may have bear-stanced the wrong target, or whatever. Game was hardly over though.
Later, When Malz reconnected, he came back to lane level 2, while you were level 9. Maybe you were just trying to be nice, but you were letting him CS and everything instead of just trying to kill him outright. But since the game wasn't going great, killing him was def the best decision.
Later on, you went bot lane for a gank, did okay, did damage, all was good. However, you started to recall (with full hp + mana), and then Hec counter-ganked. Even though you saw him coming, you decided to finish your recall and that is what ended up giving Hec another 3 kills. After that, the opposing team was all under 20% hp - you could have killed them instead with just a single Q.
Plus, the enemy Nasus got pretty strong - Garen struggled against him.
7/3/11 - 182 v 5/7/3 - 148.
Obviously, you did phenomenally mid lane with your CS (241).
Anyway, though your bot lane certainly lost the game for you guys, more than anything else. That evaluation is a fair one. That said, i think there was a few things could you have done that could have drawn the game out a lot longer (even though, being realistic, Nasus would have killed you all anyway).
You've def had a bad string of luck with ranked games and i hope that it starts working out better for you.
Our jungle doesn't ever take adv of me keeping their jungle at mid... no fucking idea what he's doing.
he was farming both jungles - 125 CS as a jungler compared to fed Hec's 122. He also died bot lane a lot of times (8 altogether).