Same boat, I bought the game yesterday and still cannot connect to anyone else's game nor can I host one. I'm gonna be asking for a refund soon if this keeps up. I figured I'd give it a last ditch effort here to see if anyone can help. I have tried:
Location: Canada
ISP: TekSavvy.com
OS: Windows Vista x32, tested on x64 system as well.
Service: DSL
Problem: infinite "Connecting to players..."
- DMZ'd my internal IP on the router
- tried with UPnP on and off
- forwarded the ports manually
- Ran a third party port checker, 6073 and 6100-6200 are verified as Open
- Unhooked the router entirely and connected directly to the DSL modem, still nothing.
- Windows Firewall is off
- No third party antivirus or firewall software installed
- tried running with command line /serverproxyonly, still nothing.
I can play host/join in any other online game(TF2, L4D, WiC, Warcraft 3, WoW, etc etc etc etc etc) without any issues. This game just seems to hate me for no reason.
Anyone from Stardock please? What's the deal? The only way my setup could be more open would be for me to hop on a bike and start running packets over.